YOU ARE UNIQUE

Aman Jaiman

Emotions, pleasure, and behaviour are an integral part of being human, and the most crucial element is the mind, which distinguishes humans from animals.

However, among humans, there is also a distinction between myself and others. At the age of 21, my emotions and behaviour show a keen interest in the attraction to the opposite gender (female). Sometimes, this attraction becomes overwhelming, like a big bubble in my mind full of emotions for a female, and the rest is history.

At my current age, I believe many have succumbed to the trap of fleeting pleasure. My heart also suggests adhering to certain conventional norms.

But…

There is a significant difference between love and lust. Although both words consist of four letters, they embody entirely different meanings and perspectives.

Regarding love, I find myself not falling for every girl I see. My choices are selective because I understand the distinction between these two concepts.

The decisions I make are always more profound and enduring. For instance, I recall a girl from my final year of graduation. As one might expect from someone inexperienced in talking to girls, my intentions were always pure, yet nothing materialised.

Now, let’s discuss those feelings that transform into thoughts about pleasure (sex) —

At 21, an age full of enthusiasm, energy, goals, and motivation, a minor part of my thoughts is reserved for such pleasures that might occur only when finding a suitable partner.

Chronologically, I’ve observed situations where people indulge in such pleasures without considering their partner. This lack of humanity is evident in their thinking.

And this is what sets me apart from these individuals.

If I’m writing this, it reflects my virtues, a truthful account without self-glorification or deceit to portray myself as an ideal personality.

I could have indulged during my college days and even now as a professional, forming connections with someone who perceived me as a partner. However, this would follow a more genuine process, involving sincere conversations and intentions.

BUT I DON’T

I believe love is the foundation before stepping into the metaphorical examination hall where emotions and feelings are shared physically. Without love, one should not pursue temporary pleasures.

MY PERSPECTIVE for this section of life is :

I am merely the author of this perspective, residing on this small planet called Earth. I hope to be remembered not just by my family after my death but by many, known for my diligent work and thoughtful insights.

Lust, procrastination, and ill-mannered individuals are akin to diseases for me. They may temporarily affect me, but never for my entire life because I am aware of my limitations.